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Cheating: The secret of happy couples
A recent study from the King Abdullah University of Saudi Arabia shows that the key to a happy marriage is adultery.
Cheating in secret is the secret to a happy marriage.
The discovery of the research was that infidelity can actually revive a tired marriage.
Not only is it natural to think about being with another people, it would be healthier to act on those fantasies, said Halem al-Rafei, chief of the marriage department at the King Abdullah University.
Monogamous marriages are unnatural and we should allow for the more natural habit of taking other partners.
The study compares the monogamous spouses to a caged animal that continues to see temptation beyond the bars, but cannot get to it.
Whereas partners who engage in no-strings attached flings do not feel trapped in their marriage.
Total discretion is the absolute rule; the other party should never find out in order to keep a happy, healthy and lasting relationship.
It may sounds contradictory but is not.
Couples should model their relationships on understanding.
There should be no feeling of betrayal when a woman finds lipstick on her man’s collar or a hotel bill on his charge card statement.
Halem claims that nearly a quarter of the world population and a third of the American population engages in extramarital affairs with no repercussions.
If a person is locked in a celibate marriage, the best solution is to seek sex from an alternative source instead of trying to work through whatever issues you have having with your spouse and that will result in staying together forever.
Cheat, secrets, lies and being away from the person you love for long periods of time are the best path to a happy relationship.
the world must know the truth!
The Herald Sun
Top 10 cheating professions
Even though who already has inside his heart the seed of infidelity no matter what their profession is, we can say that some of them tend to lead to an unfaithful behavior.
This is the top ten.
10 – Taxi drivers or professional drivers. The daily contact with the customers and the trust put on the one that every day takes you home safely allows a very intimate relationship.
9 – Leisure workers. Tour guides and hotel employees spend many days away from home in paradisiac places interacting with people willing to enjoy and experience the best out of their vacation time.
8 – Bartenders. Every night surrounded by alcohol and party celebrations where customers always try to made a good impression. It’s hard not to please them and fulfill their requests for understanding and love.
7 – Teachers. Not only students have fantasies with them, also some parents looking up for a safe image of care and protection.
6 – Pilots and flight attendants. Is probably one of the jobs where people travel more and spend more time far away from home. Many hours of work lead to a state of nerves and tension and not having adequate interaction with your partner might predispose to find love with the ones you have by your side at work.
5 – Psychologists. Due to the high amount of privacy needed to obtain results with the patient they obtain an enormous closeness and dependency that awaken feelings of love and affection.
4 – Executives, clerks, lawyers and professionals spend more hours at the office than home. It is likely that that contact wake up feelings that goes beyond the merely job relationship.
3 – Journalists, cameramen, producers and broadcasters continuously travel and surrounded themselves with beautiful people willing to do anything to reach fame. Working in this frivolous atmosphere does not cooperate to maintain a faithful behavior.
2 – Famous Stars. To singers, models, actors and even soccer players the fame makes them an easy target for young people to admire and follow as fans.
1. Health workers. Physicians of all specialties and nurses spend entire days and nights at the hospital without going home. Long work schedules and so many free hours added to the close contact with death that makes them see life differently conspire against fidelity and honest relationships.