Advices you realize are true when is already late
Almost everything people say is useless and you just need to look them into the eyes and nod.
It takes years to filter out the bad advices from the good relevant one.
Out of generosity I’m sharing some of them.
Butterflies in the stomach
Love is a great feeling but that teenage hormone fueled addictive experience of butterflies in the stomach is not even near from what real love is.
As soon as you are mature enough to adjust your life to another person without the anxiety of physical contact, butterflies go away.
The longer you know someone the more you love that person and the more comfortable you feel.
The difference between sexual rush and love is gigantic and the only way you can learn it is experiencing it.
Most of us never did any home chores and if you did some, it was completely unwillingly.
Much sooner than you think, you’re going to be responsible for all of the chores at your own house and you will wish you know how to do them.
Because you didn’t paid attention when someone tried to teach you cook, as an adult you will find the majority of your sustenance coming from the frozen boxes that are prepared with a microwave and the ability to push 4.
I’m a writer so maybe I’m a little extra interested in people who know how to compose but, it is truly very important that as an adult you type in your native language better than an eleven year old kid.
It is also true that some schools still treat the subject of writing the way they did in 1950 not understanding that today you can’t function as a human without knowing how to use a computer.
The way you write reflects your brainpower.
You don’t have to be Hemingway but you need to learn to be concise and clear or it will be coming back to bite you.
When you are at school 50% of what they teach you will be absolutely useless once you settle into your adult life.
Writing is one of those things that matters because in an online world most of the people who interact with you will only see that side of you.
No matter how smart or experienced you are, the majority of contacts are in the form of emails and texts.
If you don’t face your feelings and emotions when you are a kid, it would be very hard to understand yourself as an adult.
When your teachers send you to the counselor you should take it as something good, it means you are a deep and complex person.
Going to the doctor about mental counseling shouldn’t be harder for you to accept than going to see a doctor about an allergy is.
It’s completely normal to have some mental issues and seek help.
Maybe is not that normal to write about them on your Facebook wall but that’s another issue.
the world must know the truth!